I studied her face, looking for any sign that she understood the magnitude of what she’d done. But there was only mild regret, the kind of polite sadness someone might feel about a business decision that unfortunately affected other people. No, I said quietly. You just wanted to replace me. The hurt was just collateral damage.
As I walked upstairs to our bedroom, I could hear Lauren on the phone. Her voice animated in a way it hadn’t been during our conversation. She was calling Frank, I realized, telling him that the secret was out, that they could accelerate their timeline, that the inconvenient husband had finally been dealt with.
I sat on the edge of our bed, surrounded by the remnants of a life I’d thought was real. The woman downstairs wasn’t the person I’d married, or maybe she was, and I’d simply never seen her clearly. Either way, the Gerald who’d woken up that morning believing in his marriage was as gone as the Lauren who’d once loved him. Tomorrow, I would start the process of untangling 28 years of shared life.
But tonight, I needed to grieve not just for my marriage, but for the man I’d been when I still believed in it. Monday morning, I sat across from David Morrison, the same lawyer who’d handled our wills 5 years ago. The irony wasn’t lost on me that Lauren had consulted with his firm about divorcing me while I was now seeking his help to protect myself from her plans.
“Gerald, I have to tell you, this is one of the most calculated divorce strategies I’ve seen in 30 years of practice,” David said, reviewing the documents I’d brought him. “Your wife has been hib building this case for a very long time.” I nodded, watching him flip through photographs of the apartment, copies of the legal consultation notes, and printouts of Lauren’s carefully documented evidence against me.
What are my options? David leaned back in his leather chair, his expression thoughtful. Well, the good news is that her strategy depends on you being unprepared and uninformed. The fact that you discovered this before she filed changes everything. He tapped the consultation summary. She was planning to paint you as emotionally unavailable and financially irresponsible, but we can counter that narrative.
How? With facts. You’ve been the stable, supportive spouse for 28 years. You’ve never been unfaithful. You’ve supported her career advancement, and you’ve managed your joint finances responsibly.” David smiled grimly. More importantly, you have evidence of her systematic deception and adultery that matters even in a no fault state.
Over the next 2 hours, David walked me through the reality of my situation. While Texas was indeed a community property state, Lauren’s adultery and deception could impact the division of assets. More importantly, her documented plans to manipulate the divorce proceedings could seriously undermine her credibility with a judge.
